I have mixed feelings about it too, mainly because I'm still a shipper first and foremost. So if the movie happens and there's no reunion with Buffy or Spike has moved on from her I'm going to be extremely disappointed. But there's also a part of me that wants it to happen because I'd love to see something new from Joss on the tv again.

*sighs* It's times like these when I think it would be so much easier to just be a casual fan and not worry about all this stuff.